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Gary Smith's avatar

The sense of being a walking wallet grates after a while. Even if I know rationally that it is a privilege to come from somewhere where relatively small denominations of money mean little to me beyond the principle of the matter, but are crucial to locals living on much less.

I have a similar feeling of regret over being somewhat rude to a Greek cab driver and stiffing him on his tip because I thought he'd taken us on a deliberately circuitous route, only to learn later he had valid reasons and had actually gone out of his way to help us. I regret most the gap between the kind of traveler I like to imagine I am, and my actions in a moment of annoyance. All I can do is learn from it for next time.

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Gary Trujillo's avatar

Gotta pay the locals, Chris.

Reading this gave me some sort of anxiety because I was expecting someone to punch someone.

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Chris Tharp's avatar

Haha I know I know! We were fucking lame, but we had been hosed so many times before that we decided to die on that hill.

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Geoff Foley's avatar

Or for the Jeep and its driver to be long gone by the time they returned.

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Liya Marie's avatar

Ah! I have been to Kashgar. And I have behaved badly too, pushed past my limit with a terrible landlord in Shenzhen. Everyone has those days when you just cannot take the extraction of money anymore and you lose sight of the bigger picture.

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Chris Tharp's avatar

Yup. Thanks for reading!

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E. Toast's avatar

I think at some point we discussed taking a dump on his motorcycle seat. SHAME!

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Chris Tharp's avatar

Yeah I changed it to pissing in this version but I think one of had to go and the bike seemed like an appropriate target.

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